Charles Houston Raby, Jr.

So sorry to hear of Chuck’s passing.

As a young man, Chuck loved the outdoors. He spent many days in one of his favorite places in the Sierras, Mineral King in Sequoia National Park. I was lucky to join him on one of his adventures there. I was young, maybe 14 or 15, he was 19 or 20 and still he let me tag along. The mountains seemed overwhelming to me but Chuck was patient and taught me a lot about backpacking. From that point on I developed a love for the mountains and have since spent many days and nights out in the woods. He was a good Brother.

I remember when you were teaching me to drive and you told me not to look into the oncoming headlights lest I be drawn into them. I think about that every time I get behind the wheel. You taught us how to camp. You were there when I finished Basic. Thanks for looking out for me Brother.

You can see the love Charles had for his family as well as the love they had for him. I didn’t know him like my mom, his cousin, Pat, but I do know he had strong passions for what he believed. My heart goes out to the family, praying for God to send his comfort to all of you, like only He can.

When I turned 12, the entire family forgot my Birthday. Uncle Ken was getting married that day and everyone was busy with that. They all went to the church to decorate, leaving me at Grandma’s house. I was sitting in the kitchen crying and Chuck walked in and asked me what was wrong. I told him it was my birthday and everyone had forgotten. He just said “bummer man” and left. I was kinda shocked. 15 minutes late , I am still sitting there wallowing in My sadness and the door opens. It’s Chuck- he was back with a Cake , balloons, a card and this beautiful little figurine of a little girl with a sheep. I was overwhelmed and will never ever forget his kindness that day.

I’m saddened by this loss, and my heart goes out to Pam, Kristin and the family.
I pray you are comforted by the love that surrounds you at this difficult time, and in knowing that many people loved Chuck.
I remember when we first met him, with a big smile and friendly, welcoming attitude he introduced himself as “our neighbor Chuck” and pointed over to his home a few doors down. Soon after I met Pam and their children Ben and Kristin, both close in age to our two daughters. In short order we were friends, and often enjoying cook outs and sharing meals together or visiting the local Mexican restaurant together. It wasn’t long before these friends became so much more…they’re family. We’ve shared lots of celebrations & good times, some sad times and many, many a meal together. Chuck is the one that put us all together with that neighborly welcome. I’m so grateful he was placed in our life path and initiated the connection we have with this dear family.
Chuck, we will miss you as we hold you and your memory in our hearts forever.
With love,
~ Tammy